An observation from my minimalist life: when you don’t have a lot of stuff in your home, you tend to look outward for entertainment.
When my husband and I lived in our tiny flat in England, we rarely spent our leisure time indoors—other than reading or cooking, there simply wasn’t much to do. Instead, weekends and evenings would find us walking the streets of London, or the idyllic paths of the countryside.
The same holds true now: even though we live in a larger house, there’s still not much to keep us inside. During the day, I usually put Plumblossom in my Baby Bjorn carrier, wander through the neighborhood, and chat with anyone who happens to be out and about. On weekends, our little family goes for long walks and picnics in a local park. As far as I can tell, Plumblossom—budding minimalist that she is—much prefers an outdoor jaunt than staying inside and playing with toys. And my husband and I would certainly rather get some fresh air and exercise than sit around at home.
Along my minimalist journey, I’ve learned that too much stuff can build up into walls around us—keeping us isolated from everything and everyone out there. When we declutter, we dismantle those stacks and mounds and piles of clutter, and reconnect with the world at large. Oftentimes, it’s simply a matter of pursuing our interests and activities on public ground rather than private.
Here’s a few examples:
* Instead of buying (and storing) a treadmill or rowing machine, go for walks/runs or join a recreational athletic league.
* Instead of outfitting a media room with the latest and greatest in viewing technology, take your family out to the movies.
* Instead of owning an ice cream maker, cappuccino machine, or specialty bakeware, go out for an indulgent treat.
* Instead of accumulating collectibles, visit a gallery or museum (or window shop) to satisfy your aesthetic interests.
* Instead of stashing away closetfuls of craft supplies, take a class or course in your hobby of choice. That way, you can use the studio’s equipment rather than invest in your own.
As I write in my book, The Joy of Less:
In our quest to become minimalists, we want to reduce the amount of things in our homes that require our care and attention. Fortunately, we have ample opportunity to do so—simply by shifting some of our pleasures and activities into the public realm. In fact, such action produces a pretty wonderful side effect. For when we hang out in parks, museums, movie houses, and coffee shops—instead of trying to create similar experiences in our own homes—we become significantly more socially active and civically engaged. By breaking down the walls of stuff around us, we’re able to get out into the world and enjoy fresher, more direct, and more rewarding experiences.
Do you have any walls of stuff you need to break down? Tell us about it in the Comments!
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Kathie
My mind seems consumed this morning with what little we had when we moved into our current home as opposed to what we own now. Thanks to THE JOY OF LESS I am coming closer to to whittling my possessions down to the amount of what I had when my family moved into this house twenty six years ago (applause!!!). Still, I feel I own too much. But, since I have streamlined, I do spend much more time reading and far less time cleaning, and I dance daily now–something I always longed to do, and I get outside the home to do it for 2-3 hours at a time. And even though I always enjoyed cooking before, I was rushed. Now, as a primarily whole foods-plant based eater, I have time to wash and chop daily–and not just for myself but for the entire family. Life is definitely better! Plus, I admit that I am ready to give up my skis and rent, although my husband isn’t, and I am ready to live with far less than he is, but that’s life because he’s a keeper. So, when I stop to identify my wall, it is me, because I am still on my minimalist journey and I’m still learning. The nice thing is that the farther I go, the more my family follows and joins me. Patience is a virtue!
Tina
I keep giving away cuttings from my houseplants. If I want to walk in the jungle, I will go to a greenhouse or botanical garden.
Tina
I have always had houseplants. But now, I am keeping fewer of each kind. I have been potting cuttings in used styrofoam cups and giving them away by the dozen. When we had a house, I had several hanging from the ceiling and when I worked in an office I had all the file cabinets covered with potted plants. I have more varieties now, but just a few of each. We walked through a nature preserve and saw bees and three different kinds of butterflies enjoying the wildflowers. That was pleasant, too.
Tina
My neighbor, who gives me clothes, stopped by to get some succulents for her grand daughter who just moved. I had just made a dish garden in a second hand bowl and gave it to her. I give away hundreds of plants every year.
jim
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Been a firm believer if something is not used in 6 months or less get rid of it. It’s just stuff lying sound.
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